Mentor Leadership Training Course
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LAF

L Listen and communicate respect Before you send a message to your partner, ask yourself:
  • Did I read the message carefully before I responded?
  • Did I show that I care?
A Ask questions
  • Did I get enough information to understand what my partner is telling me?
  • Did I ask good questions?
F Focus on what your partner is saying
  • Did my response show that I am thinking about
    • What my partner is saying and
    • How my partner is feeling?

Don't CRY

C Don’t Criticize Before you send a message to your partner, ask yourself:
  • Did I remember not to criticize or judge my partner?
R Don’t React too quickly
  • Did I give careful thought to what I was saying to my partner?
  • Did I think about the impact of what I was saying?
Y Don’t Yakkity yak yak!
  • Did I allow my partner the chance to talk?

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Last updated June, 2000.